I love to be honest, any relationship is strong if the base of it is strong....so honesty is best policy
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I love to be honest, any relationship is strong if the base of it is strong....so honesty is best policy
Well, I finally worked my way down the forums list to this and decided I would add my 1.5 cents worth.
I am 52 years old, Dominant, sadist and admitted hedonist. I have been interested in tieing and dominating females for as long as I can remember. In fact, my first sexual rememberance is the hard on I got when I thought about ties up the little red head down the street and doing nasty things to her. The fact that I was about 12 years old, had no idea what nasty things really were, and that she was 15 didn't make a difference to me. I just knew I liked the sensations the thoughts brought on. I was hooked.
Now I am much older, not sure if I am much wiser, but I still like those sensations and now I have a much greater appreciation of what those "nasty things" really encompass.
As for the rest of my life. I spent 25 years riding fire trucks as a professional fire fighter. I have an MBA with a specialty in Human Resource Management. I am retired except for a small consulting practice and some part time teaching at the university level. I am currently considering returning to school to Pile it HIgher and Deeper after my name.
I have been married almost 30 years. Fortunately, we discovered early on that we were complementary personalities; she submissive and me dominant. It has been a wonderful time and I hope it lasts another 30 years.
We, at one time or another, have tried just about everything we could think of in the lifestyle. Some we liked and we made it a part of our lifestyle. Some we didn't like and we just don't do those things. Others like those things and we don't have a problem with that. We have done the groups thing, the play party things, etc. We find that now, our play is more intimate, more private and more intense than ever before.
I do not profess to be a professional at this thing we call bdsm, but I do know that in 30 years I have seen a lot, done a lot, experienced a lot, made a lot of screw ups, discovered some really neat things and come a long way as a Master and a Dominant. I don't know if any of it is anything that will help anyone else, but, like most Dominant personalities, I usually have an opinion and I don't mind sharing it.
If you have any more questions or want to know more, please don't hesitate to ask either here in public or in private if you want. I am open, accessible and more than willing to talk and answer questions.
TDS
~smiles~ TDS what a lovely introduction, thank you
I have only talked to your briefly but from that chat and the above intro your wife is indeed a lucky lady.
May your next 30 years be as good as the first 30
~hugs~ minx
Master C here. I am a straight male, Master of a very devoted slave. I have been in this lifestyle for over 20 years, but still learn almost daily. I am very demanding, as devotion(My slave) will tell you,as well as a sadist. I have always been interested in tying, binding, and control. Even before I knew what it was all about.
Im the master of sipgirl who is also my wife and mother to my children. We love each other to no end and the lifestyle gives us an even deeper feeling of undeniable and unconditional love. Besides that we really enjoy pleaseing each other and I enjoy torturing my little whore{wife}!!!
hi I'm a straight master, even though never had a girlfriend that was into this sort of stuff so haven't had much actual experience but have been into the tying up, control etc,
Hello Rabbit,
And everyone else. I have been here a few days now, but today is my first visit to this thread and I find another request to introduce Myself. Would somebody please tell me where these all are so I am not missing anything.
My name is Joshua, and I am 47, a white male Master/Dom. I prefer the Master aspect because it is more of a challenge.
Im a 35 year old Dom ,for the past 10 years. I love using disipline and pain to take my subs to neew and diffrent places ,letting them experience new things, and hopefully find the experiences truly erotic and exciting.
hi i'm a master never had any actual experience but never had any real feelings for been a sub. been called a control freak quite a few times.
G'day All... Hard Core, Old School, Very Private S & M Master(Owns my slave cg proudly).
Sense of humor, Enjoy life to the fulliest.
What excites Me.. a quiet sub!!!!! Laffs (Now thats a rare thing).
Any other questions just ask!!!
Cheers!!
Master Benz
My wife tessa asked me to introduce myself to the forums so I'm indulging her request. She looked up at me with that sweet look on her face. How could I say no. We're learning together but we both already know our place with each other. I need the control and love the feeling I get when she's tied up and helpless under me. I like administering pain and love the marks that are left as reminders. She's been telling me about this place so I wanted to see for myself.
*bounces around* ooo am i allowed here?????
welcome Daredevil!!!!! sooo glad You FINALLY made it!! geez took Ya long enough..... *giggles and runs out, weary of the Doms*
And he just recently made a nice and thick wooden paddle, hurts like a snake bite! So yeah, run, sexy girl...run as fast as you can. Won't make a difference, though. He was a track star and is still wicked fast. I know that from firsthand experience. But please, run. It'll be fun to watch. ~giggles~
Welcome DareDevil...I know the feeling my cg told Me of this place. Hope to see you in the chatroom there a good crew.Quote:
Originally Posted by DareDevil
Cheers!!!
Benz
Laffs...like a snakebite huh!!! and of course you did nothing to deserve this..Quote:
Originally Posted by tessa
my cg's famous last words * Master!!!!!!! I didnt do nuttin!!!!!!! hahaha!!!
Investigates more the pain of a snake bite...Smile!
Welcom Benz, gald to see you here.
Welcome Daredevil, missed you when you popped in here, sorry about taking so long to notice.
I appreciate the welcomes. Thanks.
I'm BellezzaSolenne. I'm a 20 year old Domme. I'm rather inexperienced and I'm here to learn and grow.
:wave: Hello againQuote:
Originally Posted by BellezzaSolenne
I am a dominant who has been in the lifestyle actively for some fifteen years. Many things I have guided, and some avenues I have not gone down, due to either disinterest in them or simply keeping a steady bottom line, or bottom in line if you prefer.
Psynymph, with an approach like that one, you are welcome anywhere!Quote:
Originally Posted by Psynymph
Much like a true submissive, who is instinctively and inherently submissive, it is your natural approach, not necessarily in life as a whole, but certainly in relationships. This does not mean having no boundaries....only those who are truely not dominant have no boundaries.
:wave: Hi BarLord67 and :welcome: to the Forums.
I'm interested in speaking with you as I'm new to this whole arena.
ineeditnow111000 welcome.
I would direct you to my thread in BDSM Knowledge titled Hard Limits questionaire. Take it even though you are new to find what intrigues you the most. If you wish my input on your desires shown by the questionaire you either have to post it back into the thread or pm it to me.
Hi my name is David. I am a fairly new Dominant. Im a 21 year old cuban and peurto rican man. I actually got into bdsm from my fiancee/submissive. Weve been together for almost 7 months and plan on getting married sometime next year.
Well I am 32 years old and a Dom.
I have been doing this for the past dunno 7-8 years or so with different subs and I feel quite secure in who I am and what I want. Should have made this introduction here before but oh well.
Atm I am looking for a new sub though. Nilla is nice but it only gets soo good. I need my kinks lol.
Hie to you fellow kinkstaas :wave:
Greetings to A/all.
I am Sir Robert, Master of a collared sub. I have enjoyed being a Dom for over 10 years and claimed My last sub over a year ago. she is very obedient & devoted to Me.
I believe that a good Dom should constantly be learning more about the lifestyle in order to hone His skills and be the best Dom He can be and that is My primary reason to be on this site.
I am here to learn from & interact with My fellow Dom's as well as be available to subs who wish to ask questions of Me.
I look forward to hearing from both Dom's & subs alike.
While I made a modest introduction in the general introduction thread, I thought I might add one with a bit more detail here.
General: I became interested in D/s a little over six years ago while dating a wonderful girl who in time revealed to me here interest and experience in the lifestyle. Our vanilla relationship was transformed into a D/s relationship after I had read a number of books and web sites that she recommended an we began to experient. Slowly and with great patience she helped me to learn to become an effective Dom who was able to meet her needs as a submissive woman. I learned rather quickly that I enjoyed a D/s relationship much more than any vanilla relationships I had experienced. We remained together up until a few months ago when her employer offered her a career advancing position on the West Coast. While neither of us were happy about going our separate ways, it was an opportunity that she was well suited for and one that I could not bring myself to ask her to pass up. I myself was for several reasons not in the position to relocate. Quickly we arrived at the place where we had to admit that the distance by which we are separated precluded continuing the relationship as it had been although we always remain close friends. Thus, my experience to date is within the context of that one r/l relationship.
Lifestyle Interests: I have a wide range of interests within the lifestyle, some of which I have experienced and others that I hope to. I very much enjoy teasing and denial which I find to be very challenging. While I am not much of a sadist, I do very much enjoy spanking, flogging, etc. from more of an erotic viewpoint rather than from a desier to inflict pain. I do very much enjoy the transfer of power aspects and enjoy being in control. I like forced exercise activities and mild humiliation play. My former submissive and I had only recently began exploring water sports and I found that to be something I liked as well.
Other Interests: I enjoy reading, travel, fitness pursuits, music, and outdoor pursuits like camping, backpacking and hiking.
Goals: Honestly I am still quite attached to my former submissive and am not yet ready to become involved with another in a r/l relationship. First I feel it necessary to get past what I feel is a significant loss so that once I meet someone else, I can feel certain I am attracted to her for herself and not because I am trying to fill a hole left in my life. I have given thought to perhaps beginning with an online situation which would satisfy my own desire to remain involved in the scene and provide some outlet for it should such a circumstance present itself.
Philosophy: To met all relationships, even D/s relationships are an equal partership. The Dominant leads because he/she has been gifted with the traits to do so however I consider submission to be a beautiful and valuable gift that should always be appreciated and treated with respect. Without someone willing to submit I can not exercise my dominance and in teh same way, my dominance provides the means by which someone can experience and enjoy their submissiveness. I feel that there is always much to be learned and that no one possesses all the knowledge. It is my belief that both dominants and submissives must make it there goal to learn and grow so that a relationship deepens and does not become stagnant.
Hello.. ther My name is Micheal I been a Master/Dominate for about two and half years now... I recently married my Slave/Submissive.. I am 29 years old... I was introduce to this life style by my Submissive... My goal is to be the best I can be for our relationship...If any question or suggestion feel free to give it...thank you and have a wonderful day.....
hi my name is Thomas im a male dom like to role play and chat like any thing kinky pretty much any fetish
Just a quick into becuse i haven't got around to posting here yet. 'ello everyone, I'm Draco and i am dur's Domme.
I am rather new to this, I have some experience, but not that much yet.
My personal intrests are Video Games...
My D/s intrests are ponyplay, and painplay right now... more to cum i am sure!
I am a newly registered user here, and I wanted to say hello. I am a married male dominant with roughly a year of experience, five or six years of latency. I am presently challenged to introduce aspects of D/s to my wife of many years. It is difficult and challenging, and at this point I am not sure we will make the journey together, which is certainly not without difficulties. I have played with subs at commercial dungeons in Southern California, where I am getting a feel for things, developing some skills, and discovering much about sceneing and how to conduct myself.
I came here because I had heard elsewhere in a T&D thread about the Academy. This was of some interest to me. But I can't login to the Academy presently -- wonder how that works.
I am hoping to meet Dom/mes and subs here to share information and such, and I look forward to doing so.
Greetings,
I am MasterKHL, I am a 41 year old male Dom. I discovered BDSM my senior year of high school, thanks to one of my teachers ( I was smart enough to keep my mouth shut at the time ) I started as a submissive to my Mistress but she soon found my personality to be somewhat more Alpha and she trained me accordingly thus creating the Master who stands before you today. Later on my own I discovered Gorean D&S. I have a girlfriend who is submissive to me, but loves to Domme my slaves, in R L I have just released my slave as that I am moving from Atlanta to Waycross Ga. On line I am Master to my pet curleycue28. I am always happy to make new friends on the forums and chat, If I can answer any questions or be of assistance please feel free to contact me. Happy New year.
MasterKHL.
Hello, this is Lady C, logged in as theladystouch. I usually classify myself as a Switch, which may just mean I'm a lazy Domme. ;)
While I do enjoy playing the dominant role, every once in a while it's nice to let someone else make the decisions.
I've been on the fringes of BDSM most of my adult life, but rarely take a active or public role. I was delighted to find this site, and look forward to meeting people and learning things.
Cheers!
Hello All
My name is MasterMike27 I hope to make friends and learn as I have been a dom for about 5 yrs now and am still wet behind the ears so to speak. I hope to make friends and learn what I can.
my name is john dominating women seems appealing to me so i'm trying to coordinate something.
sorry double post
I just found this thread - so here goes.
I'm just past 60, and have been dominating the people around me for as long as I can remember - but I suppose my Rubicon was just after my 16th birthday, when I took dominating to a new level and administered my first spanking to a girl. I didn't know about BDSM back then - I'd read pot-boilers about slavery (the early Gor novels come to mind, as well as those Mens magazines with stories of Nazi love-camps), had wet dreams about owning willing slaves - but it was just something I liked.
I met others in the lifestyle much later, but had been merrily spanking bottoms all along. Meeting others who were already in the lifestyle was an eye-opener for me - I learned some shibari from those folks, and the use of gags and different forms of restraints (I'd always been good with knots - but discovered there's more than just typing wrists and ankles to bedposts - and of some delightful toys).
My second awakening came through a relationship with a Domme who was submissive to me. Through her I learned a lot - both about submission and the use of pain. Through her I also met a Dom who mentored me and helped me refine my approach.
I've had odd breaks when I stepped back from the lifestyle a little - the loss of a sub in a traffic accident made me step back for almost two years - I didn't play or even look for a play partner, never mind anyone to get serious about in that time, though I continued to socialize with some of my friends in the community. The last break happened recently. Through a variety of reasons I found myself moving half-way round the world. Finding work was difficult (over-educated, over-qualified, nothing in my field available) and I ended up in a job that required a lot of travel. I didn't feel it fair for a girl (I prefer a 24/7 total ownership relationship) to subject her to my schedule, so I contented myself with play partners - all of whom were delightful, but none of whom lit that extra spark.
Recently my situation changed again, and I found myself in a position to take on a slave once more. I recently acquired a an absolutely wonderful girl, and we are in the process of settling into a Master/slave relationship. And so the saga continues...
I've been around a lot (from back in the bad old days when no-one talked about the lifestyle openly) in North America and Europe both. I consider myself old-school, give pain for pleasure (hers and mine), have moved on from rope to chain, and enjoy the sound of a whip at work. I have an extremely active imagination, and use it a lot in concocting scenes and scenarios to play out with my girls. I'm always willing to learn something new, and to pass on what I know. I don't mince my words, and don't accept bullshit in any form. And I love a good joke or prank.