My wife tessa asked me to introduce myself to the forums so I'm indulging her request. She looked up at me with that sweet look on her face. How could I say no. We're learning together but we both already know our place with each other. I need the control and love the feeling I get when she's tied up and helpless under me. I like administering pain and love the marks that are left as reminders. She's been telling me about this place so I wanted to see for myself.