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If you can find a 'safe' spot, meet him on his lunch break for a quickie or some oral. I'm sure that would make his day!
Get the car washed; use one of the drive-throughs and masturbate during -- but naturally, don't cum until you get home and have permission. Best if you wear a jacket...and nothing else.
Depending on how concealed your back yard is, gardening in some state of undress is an option.
Collect equipment and drive your hubby to the wilderness; enjoy camping and bondage.
Y'all are proving to be as creative as I'd hoped. I love these suggestions!
Well OK- here's me thinking I could come up with something evil, & it's for your husband?? :32:
Geez take all my fun away!
I'll give it some thought. :)
Tojo
Give H the most sensual, loving bath you can give him.
maddie, you are to be nude and to be kneeling or crawling as much as possible while you are performing this task.
you are to strip H from head to toe after the bath is drawn. Let him use your shoulders to steady himself as you remove his pants and as he climbs into the tub.
suggestions:
1.) candles
2.) wine
3.) bubbles! or bath oils
4.) super soft sponge
5.) large plastic cup to rinse, or removable shower head
6.) super soft over sized towel
7.) music that sets the mood
8.) H's favorite bathrobe
9.) H's favorite slippers
10.) have soft towels on the floor around the tub to soak up the water, and to help your knees a bit
11.) fill in the blanks as you know H better than I
When you are finished bathing and drying H properly, help him into his bathrobe. Once it is on, kneel before H and bathe his feet with your tongue. After his feet are bathed for the second time, help him into his slippers.
The only punishment for this would be having to bathe unclean feet with your tongue if you do not wash them properly!!! :28:
Well, maybe slightly evil? Evil isn't necessarily bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tojo
It's hard to come up with things, without knowing much about the person concerned. I like to do my research first & learn things like how inhibited you are, what clothes you wear, what your collection of sexy undies is like & what's OK & what's a turn off.
Are you going to a restaurant for his birthday? Two options off the top of my head- wear a skirt, not too short...go to the ladies & take your panties off.
Make sure they're sexy ones.
Come back to the table with them in your hand & slip them into hubby's pocket- drop them on his lap if you dare.
Depending on how daring you are, put on a breast harness made from soft rope- make sure it's not a halter design so no one can see it. (Got to watch those ropes around the back of your neck in public)
Wear a button up blouse. When you're in a public place undo a button or two, & give him a peep at the harness.
You could also do that at home with friends around.
Anything else I'll have to share in private- certain young ladies may be reading this, I don't want to give away all my secrets! :32:
Tojo
I'm heading to the mailbox looking for my invitation right now B-rog!Quote:
Originally Posted by Balrog
I think all tasks should, in and of themselves, be fun.
Go grocery shopping in heels and a short skirt. No stooping.
Go shoe shopping. Short skirt, no panties.
Go lingerie shopping. Model anything you like before you buy.
Go furrier shopping. Model the different coats... only lingerie (or less) underneath.
Of course, the husband must approve of all purchases and that you "shopped" properly.
Let your husband chose what shoes you'll wear each day for a week, after you've already gotten dressed (or decided what outfit you will wear the night before.) You have to wear them even if it doesn't perfectly match.
I note that back at the beginning one of the things maddie noted was writing tasks, so I'll throw one of those in there since we seem a bit short on those.
Keep a "dirty thought diary" for a specified period of time. It's your job to record all your dirty thoughts and fantasies from throughout the day. Write in as much detail as time constraints allow. (I suppose if one had a shorthand writing system, this could prove tremendously useful, but it's hardly impossible without it.)
After dinner each night, you are to give your husband a reading aloud of said diary as part of his evening's entertainment. Read out everything you wrote out since the last time you read, of course. You are to play with yourself for his viewing enjoyment while you read, however you are absolutley not permitted to cum during the reading. After the reading is complete, you may then cum at husband's discretion.
Actually with that last task I listed I can think of four different "levels" one could approach it from, depending on how you wanted to go with it.
1- Simply keep the diary, and he's permitted to read it.
2- Keep the diary and read it aloud to him.
3- As I listed above.
4- As I listed above, but after you finish reading you have to act out one of the acts you read about before being permitted to cum.
So I suppose as far as tasks go this one is "season to personal taste". ;)
Some nice ideas there Tojo, :) and I think I have more than a good idea of some things you might like. It is nice to think there might be some others I don't know about yet though!:rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tojo
Maddie, I hope you are having fun reading the ideas here and that you will let us know which ones you are thinking of using. I think that jar will be full to overflowing soon, if it is not already. :)
My first post back and it's gonna be in maddie's task jar!! YAY!!!! ~hugs maddie~ So, even though a certain someone unwittingly stole one of my ideas for your task jar...~grin~ i was able to come up with a few more ideas off the top of my head.
writing assignments -
write an short essay on the importance of communication and respect in a D/s relationship.
write a short essay on your views regarding punishment in a D/s relationship and make sure to include a section on both physical and non-physical punishments.
write an essay on the difference between discipline and punishment.
here's one you can do either 2 ways...
take a deck of playing cards, shuffle them up real good and dump them in a bowl. just sit the bowl anywhere in the house that is easily accessible.
now, depending on your like or dislike of spanking, this is how you can go about it.
if you love a sensual spanking, then any time you have been good or your husband wants to reward you, he can have you go over to the bowl and randomly pick out a playing card. the card would then determine how many swats (or how many minutes...whichever would work better for you) you would get by way of a great spanking! :) for example: 3 of hearts could reward you with 3 minutes of non stop spanking...or the king of spades could earn you 20 good hard swats! ~wink~ the joker or the ace could get you more. it's definitely something you and your husband would have to work out to your personal preferences.
on the flip side...if you aren't one that enjoys spanking, you could also use the playing cards as a form of punishment. you are a bad girl and all hubby has to say is "go pull a card" and then the punishment would ensue....maybe the suit of cards determining the implement to be used during the spanking. for example: hearts=hand, spades=paddle...etc.
i loved loved LOVED Timberwolf's lil diary idea!! especially the part where you read your thoughts/fantasies aloud to your husband while masturbating...or maybe letting him play with you while you try to read...consequences if you pause, stutter or lose your place. ~grin~
i'm sure i'll think of some more ideas soon!! have fun!
everyone has such....wickedly interesting ideas!
i was given a task i quite enjoyed so i'll pass it along... (and i think it's been mentioned in some variation here) i hate grocery shopping but with the following in mind, it became quite an event. i had to pick out several items to use in play.
some were obvious - wooden spoon, i actually bought a chain link dog collar (around the neck was fun but pulling the chain out link by link well...) but others weren't - a soft brush to rub on barbeque sauce (tickles!), i got these goofy looking loofah gloves but the texture - oh my!
i have to say i enjoyed grocery shopping & imagining each thing i looked at as a possible object to use in play almost as much as using each item.
i too liked timberwolf's writing idea - especially reading it back.
hope you & your hubby are having fun!!
One task could be to sort the underwear, in the order the husband want them. If the task is not executed properly, the penalty is wearing a skirt or dress without underwear the next day, regardless of where you are going.
Y'all are giving me so many wonderful ideas for the task jar!
I bought the jar today. I wanted it to be something that I could have sitting out and not raise any suspicions. It's a replica of an old-fashioned coffee-pot and I can easily keep it out in the kitchen. It's tall enough to hold many pieces of paper and wide enough for me to get my hand inside easily.
Oh, btw. I love the new avatar maddie.
I was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
tired of looking at sexy feet in high heels. :rolleyes:
For your task jar: Go avatart hunting. (typo intended)
Happy, Oz?
:idea: Here are some things I've enjoyed doing.
1. Sleep in nothing but a collar.
2. Masturbate to 99% every morning and every evening.
3. Keep a journal which he can read anytime he wishes.
4. Squeeze your thighs together and think about your clit
every time the phone rings.
5. Perform some outdoor task with your vibe in on "high."
This task jar sounds like lots of fun! Enjoy! ;)
Thanks for that task Oz- I approve.
Thanks also to maddie for fulfilling it so well.:)
Another fun you can do is ring hubby at work- when you're wearing a nice rope harness/sexy outfit or are in some lovely compromising position.
Tell him in detail what you're wearing, or not- & ask if he has any requests...
The call could be a surprise or planned- your choice.
Tojo
Yep! Much happier. :hubba:Quote:
Originally Posted by maddie
Setup a naughty corner for maddie
get a picture, make a needle point, or have something of H's choosing hanging in this corner simply stating:
maddie's corner
the naugty corner would be used anytime H decides that you have been naughty
A cast of the die...
This is a simple game that involves three very fun things:
ice
candles
wooden kitchen spoon
well, four -- but the other three are used more...
favorite vibrator
and of course:
dice
The object of this game is to let fate decide where, with what and how much you will be allowed to play with each item.
This game is to be played in hour increments.
H, you will cast the dice three times.
The first cast of the dice, reveals what toy you will be playing with
1 and 4 = ice
2 and 5 = candles
3 and 6 = wooden spoon
the second cast of the dice reveals which body part:
1 and 4 = breasts
2 and 5 = stomach
3 and 6 = pussy
the third cast of the dice reveals either the time, the number of drops, or the swats!
time that the ice is to be rubbed and applied should be in this manner
1 and 2 = 1 minute
3 and 4 = 2 minute
5 and 6 = 3 minutes
the drips of hot wax and the swats are the number rolled.
At the end of the hour, roll the dice once more
that is the amount of time you have to play with your pussy with the vibe.
first hour of task = vibe on low
second hour of task = vibe on medium
third hour of task = vibe on high
If you are able to cum at the end of any of the hours, you may. If you do not cum, the end of the next hour will be there soon! *evil grin*
If you are unable to cum after the third hour, then it will be up to dice. Even, you are allowed. Odd, you are not.
maddie, to make this a little more fun, you are to be nude, bound spread eagle on the bed and blind folded.
H, feel free to get as creative as you like with the items used! This is only a springboard! Once the blindfold is on, feel free to add any item you want to the mix! *evil grin*
It is a simple shopping trip to the grocery.
Buying fruits, vegetables, meats and other various house hold supplies.
The only difference is you will have teased yourself through your panties until they are soaking wet.
Then, in the parking lot of the grocery, you will slip them off, and use them as a gag while you are shopping.
Ohh Woogs, that dice one is evil!
Last call for submissions!
I'll be giving my husband his present this weekend. And yes, I'll be sure to let y'all know how it went. :)
I got one task for ya. :) It is one I had told ya about before that I did for the Academy and am posting it here for ya to do.
7. Title:
Activities and ratings: clothespin, 1-4 (1); Breast Bondage (2); Breast and nipple torture (2); riding crops, light (2); clothespin, body (2); kneeling, 15 minutes or less (1); forced nudity, private (1); dildo or vibrator, large (2); Orgasm Control (2)
Gender Policy: F
Final rating of task: 15 (total number according to Activities Rating Table)/9 (number of Activities)=1.6 which is rounded up to 2 and thus placed in the Intermediate Task Forum
Things needed: clothespins (2)
rope (about 4' long)
riding crop
Dildo
Scissors (just in case)
Instructions:
You are to strip and find a place to kneel for 15 minutes without interruption. Once you can be sure of 15 minutes of uninterrupted time, you are to take the rope and tie it tightly around your whole body, under the breast so as to accentuate them, then apply the clothespins to your nipples. Be sure to have scissors closeby in case you need to cut yourselfr free if an emergency arises. Also, do not tie it too tight so as not to lose circulation or oxygen in your body. Then you are to take the riding crop and lightly flog the clothespins as you insert the dildo in your vagina, thrusting it in every time you crop yourself. After you kneel and crop yourself as many times as you can in 15 minutes, replacing the clothespins if they fall off your nipples, then you may bring yourself to orgasm and not before. If you orgasm before the 15 minutes are up, then crop yourself for 2 more minutes per each time you orgasm.
Upon receipt of a task request or my approval of such, I expect a 1,000 word report done within 1 week of completion of said task. Tell me of your feelings while doing such a task, replying on how you felt not having to orgasm until after the 15 minutes. Also, reply on how you looked in front of a mirror while you are tied up and your nipples clamped with clothespins.
Another task: sleep in nothing but handcuffs.
Oh my, i loved this thread! I got a few new ideas myself, but must ask. Maddie, will you be contuning to add to the jar?
If so, might i add my 2 cents.
Have H use you as a dinner plater or dister plater. Long coffee tables work wonders for this.
*eyes shift towards husband/dom in the next room, formerly of the USMC* maybe that's one *not* to mention..Quote:
Originally Posted by ElectricBadger
Also, giving backrubs and footrubs is a good task. Especially while he watches football or something else that he enjoys. :)
maddie, have you made use of any of the suggestions?
Oooh, thank you for asking, Warbaby! I've been meaning to post here.
Things have been a bit crazy of late, so we haven't used it as much as I'd like. I did pull a task the other night, though, the card one (picking a card determines a number of spankings). Much to my husband's joy, I pulled an ace, which meant 20 swats!
Will update when I have more...
maddie, thanks for the update so far. Keep that smile and maybe he will go easy on the swats. **smiling**Quote:
Originally Posted by maddie
woohooo!! sounds like so much fun!!! glad it's working out for you, hon!!Quote:
Originally Posted by maddie
So glad you reported on the taskjar. Am interested in hearing more.
Can't wait to hear more, maddie!