maddie's task jar

As some of you know, I've always said I'm more into bondage than D/s. However, we do dabble in D/s a bit and I'd like to see us go a bit further with it. Not 24/7, just make it a little bit more of our daily lives.

To that end, I've decided to create what I'm calling my task jar. And that's where y'all come in, I hope.

I'm looking for suggestions of tasks. Simple ones, mostly, but some that would challenge me, of course, as well as a few rewards. Things I've thought of, to give you an idea:

* alphabetizing the CDs.
* household chores that I don't like, done under particular guidelines (like certain clothing or shoes)
* writing tasks

I hope y'all can help me fill my task jar with interesting ideas!

*weg* I'll be back here...starting to discover my domly side, lol. I hope your jar will never be empty from now on.

YAY...tasking maddie time!!! :D

*stroking my goatee with an evil grin*

I shall think of many things for you to do, my dear.

muwahahahahahahahahaha

Just remember. I'm a nice person and y'all like me. :)

oh maddie,

You've opened Pandora's Box. i think this is going to be fun:)

- write a paper on the wonders of sheep..

*wanders off whistling*

I read in a story once about a sub that would present her Master with the daily mail... kneeling, with the mail between her teeth. Simple, but the image stuck with me.

I have a feeling this thread will get busy. ;)

maddie,

I have a couple of suggestions that I thought I would throw out there...

add the number of days allowed to complete the task -- some could be immediate, some could be three, etc. Of course, the days assigned to complete the task would be left up to maddie's H, of course.

add a punishment jar, so if a task was not completed on time, or as prescribed, a random punishment could be drawn -- this could come up with a punishment not quite suiting the 'crime' so to speak -- but might add some incentive to do the tasks properly...

just suggestions...so, feel free to use or not.

Hope your task jar runneth over! :-)

Woogsbie

Excellent ideas, Woogsbie. Thanks!

oh boy - you certainly are a brave one, aren't you?
LOL

i'll be watching this thread with all kinds of interest!

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Originally Posted by maddie

* alphabetizing the CDs.

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That one's a bitch!

Here's a suggestion:

High heels, thong, garter belt and stockings for clothes.

A feather duster.:cool:

Your task would be to dust the house, paying special attention to detailed places like say oh...the blinds, in an alloted time. You and your husband could negotiate how long.

Your reward for doing it in the time limit could be a sexual favor from your husband or a foot rub or back rub...

Your punishment could be having to do another chore you don't like or a spanking or spending the rest of the day wearing what you are wearing....

There you go maddie. I hope this helps you out. If it does don't be shy about telling us alllll about it. :D

Here's a few helpful ones.

1) Sorting through that drawer in the kitchen where all the junk that might one day be useful tend to end up.

2) Throwing away everything you haven't used in a year, (or arranging to sell for expensive unused things).

I also suggest having a task that entails reporting performed tasks to the forum, what punishments you got and what clothes you wore.

~giggles~ at the brave maddie

defrosting the freezer and then packing the food back in order of colour ~smiles~

The reward could be, do it before all the ice melts and you get to use the ice in play :)

maddie

If you have a pantry that looks like mine...organize!
All the canned foods, boxed foods etc

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Originally Posted by TomOfSweden

1) Sorting through that drawer in the kitchen where all the junk that might one day be useful tend to end up.

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...and finding a creative play use for one for of the items.

Your reward - well you/Hubby playing with it as you suggest.
Your punishment - not playing with it as you suggest.

cariad

cariad

I love that idea! *Thinks about all the junk in 3 drawers* and grins

1. Make a multi-course dinner for your husband; serve it nude, or in a sexy servant's outfit; play the maid throughout (standing nearby, refilling his drink, removing plates, etc). Reward: you get to eat dinner; Punishment: to bed with none, or have to eat it from a bowl on the floor.

2. Detail a room (that is, clean completely and thoroughly; under, behind, and around everything) while chained to a heavy object therein. Follow with a 'white glove' inspection. Reward: "Initiate" the now very clean room; Punishment: do it again!


I'll try to think of more; certainly a fun exercise!

*Reading the posts in this thread, remembering I am a part of the BDSM Academy here as well, and wondering if I could mayhaps give her some of my tasks to perform as well.*

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Originally Posted by RickBulow74

*Reading the posts in this thread, remembering I am a part of the BDSM Academy here as well, and wondering if I could mayhaps give her some of my tasks to perform as well.*

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What's the BDSM Academy?

Well, you could sort out that shoe collection of yours Maddie. *gg*

Hey, seriously, though, great thread and I'm looking forward to reading all about it. *gg*

Lovely thread :D

-Cleaning windows in a not so proper outfit
Around the time your neighbours get home from work.

Please? :p

Ooooh. I love these ideas! Thank you all so much! I can't wait to see what else comes along...

After chatting with the lovely and gracious cariad, I have decided that this task jar will be my husband's birthday present. That's October 8th, so I hope that'll prompt some of you to help chip in with suggestions. I'd like to be able to give him a jar stuffed full of ideas.

Please don't feel the need to limit your suggestions to household tasks, either. Although, I must say I think housework is going to be much more interesting soon.

:bdsmsmile

I think Rabbit had better prepare for a surge on the server as suggestions start pouring into this thread.

cariad

something non-domestic... sort of...

Meet him every day for a week (or whatever time frame is decided) at the door, naked and give him a blow job. If you miss a day then as punishment you are not allowed to orgasm for 2 days.

Just a thought...

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Originally Posted by ElectricBadger

1. Make a multi-course dinner for your husband; serve it nude, or in a sexy servant's outfit; play the maid throughout (standing nearby, refilling his drink, removing plates, etc). Reward: you get to eat dinner; Punishment: to bed with none, or have to eat it from a bowl on the floor.

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I'm going to have to use this one but she will be naky & I think some guest to enjoy the meal with me (for humiliation). Should make it a little more fun :284:

"After chatting with the lovely and gracious cariad, I have decided that this task jar will be my husband's birthday present."

Now that, dear friends, is a good birthday gift.

Combined effort in chat for an idea.. ;)

sheepish(DW): maddie: ohhh i got one... Take a naughty pic of yourself for his desktop picture

suchaminx: and put in on, so its a surprise the first time he turns the PC on :)

suchaminx: maddie: or you could take a picture fully dressed use that, then over so many days, remove one piece of clothing take another picture use that and so on.......until one day .......

sheepish(DW): maddie: and then from there.. once naked.. start adding things.. collar, clamps.. etc

I love that idea sheepish :)

Wash the car and clean it inside too.

Shine his shoes.

Clean up his work bench.

Rearrange the attic.

Put those CDs into a database so it can automatically alphabetize them for you then store them in that order in bookshelves.

Stand up against a wall with nothing on, your hands perfectly still at your sides, your breast sticking out, and not saying a word to just let him admire you until he thinks of a task of his own.

arrange all of you shoes in order of lowest to highest within individual colors

thouroghly clean the frigerator wearing thigh highs and heels.

do an excersize regimine such as yoga in the buff for him to watch.

preform a strip tease dance for him.

wearing a micro-mini (no panties) and topless, wash the cieling :)


Ds

Take one small section of some delectable chocolate such as Ghirardelli...
let it just begin to melt in your mouth....
then do a slow deep throated bj on your husband.

He WILL buy more chocolate for the house, trust me. *s

I know you like bondage above all, maddie...so how about doing stuff around the house or generally spending a day bound for him? Like...having your feet or hands tied together, wearing a shibari or other kind of bondage and nothing else for him. If he's there to watch you - perfect - if not, maybe take pictures of it for him?

You could add more and more items, like plugs, nipple clamps, kinda liked the thumb bondage as well *weg*...anyway, I'm sure your man will get the idea.

As for incentives...masturbate to the edge of orgasm after every task. Do not cum. Ask for his permission to cum at the end of the day when he's checked how you've done...it's his decision.

Punishments...well, gotta think about those, lol. I'm not good with those, but I'll be back with more input later. Oh, so many ideas...;)

maddie,

get a bucket of hot soapy water and a scrub brush and get on your hands and knees and scrub all the floors that need to be washed in this manner.

the things that makes this one a little more fun

1.) you are to be nude and keep your knees wide apart keeping your sex exposed for your H's viewing pleasure ... and possibly quite more after the task is completed!

2) nipple clamps with the chain dangling down

3.) a small butt plug to be inserted before and left in for the duration of the task

Thinks this might just be your H's best birthday ever!

Woogs

Hourly teases:

This task consists of teasing your pussy for five minutes at the top of every hour. You will have three minutes at the top of every hour to find a place that is private enough to do this. A bathroom, a dressing room at a clothing store are just a couple of examples of where you can find privacy for this task.

This task is to be done every hour you are awake for two days.

You are NOT allowed to cum during this time.

Making the most of your teasing time:

The first couple of teases, you might be able to make all five minutes without stopping and without reaching orgasm, but as the hours and teasing time pile up, you will find yourself precariously close to cumming. When this happens before the five minutes has elapsed, you are to take a break, let your pussy calm down a little then finish the minutes left in your teasing time.

The Three Minute Rule:

So, if it is 11:00 AM, you have until 11:03:00 to start your tease. If the clock strikes 11:03:01 before you begin, you will be considered late.

First Late Time: Place clothespins on your nipples during the tease

Second Late Time: Place the clothespins on your nipples and tease your pussy for ten minutes instead of five.

Third Late Time: Use the slapper and slap your inner thighs 5 times each. Also know, that if you reach the third late time is reached during a day, a day will be added to your task.

Any late time after the third: Place a clothespin on each of your nipples and spank your inner times 5 times with the slapper.

*smiles* good luck!

wow what a GREAT bday present
oh boy is your Sir going to be one happy man!

Wake him up every morning with oral pleasure for a week. It's your duty to make sure you get up first. And his duty is to make sure he doesn't cheat and get up extra early. ;)

Punishment for missing a day is not being allowed to touch yourself or orgasm for the remainder of the day. Miss a second time and you miss out for the whole week (or a minimum of four days, whichever is longer). And of course you'll still be expected to deliver his pleasure anyway, even if it is late. :D

Next time you're out with Him in public, make a point of referring to him as "Sir" at least twice withing obvious earshot of someone who will hear you. It doesn't have to be blatant - slip it in somewhere. ;)

Purchase a remote control vibrator, strap it on, dress up and go out for a night on the town!

Of course, it goes without saying who gets the remote and who gets the vibrator!

Of course, this can be used for more mundane things like carpet shopping, clothes shopping, grocery shopping as maddie carefully selects the produce, ect. (I would have said shoe shopping, but it might just backfire and H would have to build a second addition on the house!)