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I am a submissive slave... I've never hidden my alter ego from any person, including my family.

About 4 years ago, I found my soul mate. The only Dom that truly made every part of my submissive...

As Oz said... I think being too pushy or too invasive during hard times can cause people to shut down more. I really feel that very thing may have been another reason for the silence in our...

My main advice is communication. I struggled with even the thought of giving up control at first. My Master and I talked for a solid 6 months before play even happened. We discussed fears, turn ons,...

Honestly, I could not agree with this more! Well said and kudos! It seems like a vicious circle of playing dirty and honestly sounds like it may not stop. I now question the validity of anything she...

Originally branding was done with an iron. As denuseri said, the scarring usually faded or scarred in a weird pattern. Plus, burns are at high risk for infection. It would have to be something that...

My Master and I participate in blood play. I did a lot of research on it prior to trying it. A lot of it was that it was a way for a Dom/me to take in their sub and vice versa. I too was a cutter....

The shower... If you clean yourself out very well and attempt play in the shower, the period will seem nonexistant. My Dom is turned off by my period as well but we have found ways around it. We play...

Another thought is that self control is in so many different areas of daily life. I feel that if you can practice discipline, you can accomplish just about anything.

I'm going to have to ponder on this one. Honestly the topic has the wheels in my head turning. Love it!! I will definitely repost when I can come up with something!

The only thing that comes to...

Oh! My apologies! I thought you were doing full on breath play. I actually like how you explained the way you and your Master do it though. It achieves the same thing in a safer manner. I have...

I'm curious to know the answer to this as well. I could understand that with a BDSM relationship it requires more. At least in my opinion. For instance, effort, trust, communication... These are all...

I would like to point out that you are a very obedient slave. As a slave myself, I can respect any fellow sub that shows that much devotion :) my own personal goal has always been to be the perfect,...

Also, with breath play... just always be safe. I have be "choked out" a time or two but never on a regular basis. We find it to be erotic and sexually fulfilling but my Dom says he always lets go...

My sae word is Kashmir. A referrence to the 8 minutes and 32 seconds of musical fusion by Led Zeppelin. The song speaks of trying new things, fnding yourself, and listening to others. When we were...

I am not in a poly relationship and never have been so, therefore, I can add zero input on this topic but i just wanted to thank you all for throwing in your opinions. I truly believe that to be in a...

So many good points were made so I'm just going to agree and repeat lol

I would communicate all fantasies in between sessions. I would never do it during a session. Sometimes by expressing what...

I'd also like to add the squeezing areas of the body while being tied up is completely erotic. His favorite spot to grab and squueeze would be my hip. It gets me every time. To be unable to move and...

This is a great example. I really feel that I can't add much more to what has already been said above. Another thing that we like to add to being tied up is a lot of sensation play. Having different...

As denuseri said, you can google local organizations. Be sure to add your city and state in the search otherwise you'll end up with a slew of groups from all over. Personally, if you have intentions...

Completely opposite of what you're needing but...

I have tried the "Clone-a-Willie"!!! It worked great... We had to use two kits to ensure it was an exact replica hut the kit was great. And it...

After months of being absent from the site, I am back. Perhaps even a little wiser to how I feel about BDSM and what it means to me.

In the beginning of my BDSM journey, everything was moving so...

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php/16059-The-Glossary-of-BDSM-BDSM-Basics-Safety-Toys-Kinks-amp-Fetishes

This is the thread I was speaking of above :)

I randomly came across this kink while using Google to look into something else. I was like: WHAT?!?!? lol Either way, I plan on trying it eventually. It's not exactly at the top of my wish list, but...

denuseri.... I admire you and even though you are only an on-line aquaintence... I respect you greatly. I have seen you step up on subjects like this and be the best support you possibly can be. I...

I am so glad to hear that it went well :) Absolutely fabulous!