Welcome, then, bibrian!
I'm not sure if bi-subs have the easiest time, the hardest, or both. The journey toward discovery should be rich.
Solis
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Welcome, then, bibrian!
I'm not sure if bi-subs have the easiest time, the hardest, or both. The journey toward discovery should be rich.
Solis
It is stupid beyond all imagining, as is any other form of mutilation.
For details, check the World Health Organization's page on female genital mutilation. Regardless of whether the goal is...
I concur with misty and MistyBlue both. For people older than about 19, being on camera feels momentous and risky. I can understand why a dom might not want to take that risk (doms - mostly - are...
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Regrets for the long silence. Life keeps insists on becoming a distraction.
In general, I don't think "fostering insecurity" is a healthy training regimen and extended periods of...
Good question.
Sexuality is a particularly fraught topic, so it might be easier to think about the underlying issue if we recast it in another realm.
Doms routinely control their subs' feeding...
Good morning, Phenyx. Regrets for the long-delayed response, but life kept intervening to thwart my good intentions.
The short answer is: no, this person's behavior is not acceptable, not...
Hello, pip.
Help me understand what you mean by "financial domination" and by the phrase "where to start building my own, beside the obvious." Mayhap I could help if I understood more clearly.
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No problem.
Technically we operating in a "reduced cues environment." All communication is ambiguous, and we resolve the ambiguity in the words by interpreting the other cues people give us: are...
Hello, rjt.
And welcome.
There's an element of trust required in any serious relationship. The world is filled with trolls and poseurs and folks who I wouldn't trust to butter bread without...
Regrets for the long-delayed response, child. I was not intended as a snub.
The answer depends, in part, on the exchange is synchronous (something like chat) or asynchronous (for example, a...
This might be a good time to reflect on your Mistress's goals for you and how she has been shaping you. The answer to, what should i do?, starts with, "what developments in me would most fit Her...
Hi, plzhaves.
You'll find some interesting infographics about the mechanics of spankings here.
"Whipping" is a very specific, serious activity. It's striking with a narrow, flexible...
Hello, Nonstop.
Being a dom (or domme) is about purposeful imposition of your will on another. In doing so, you force them to take the actions you dictate and to release that they're taking those...
Sugar wax? (Googling...) Oh, that has potential: painful and messy!
Hmmm ... let's see. "Dim dom" is also not just an urban legend. A number of my confreres strike me as delightful people who frequently lose the TV remote and are a, uhhh, a couple beers short of a...
Greetings.
I suppose two possibilities suggest themselves. (1) Try it. Google "BDSM munch Barcelona" and you'll find leads to social gatherings near your home. Go to one. Meet people. Play with a...
So sorry to hear that you're feeling shaky about it. It's manageable.
Being a dom means (a) understanding your sub, (b) setting goals for, in this case, him, (c) creating rules which will move...
People repeat those actions for which they are rewarded.
Doms are people.
Combining two naked bodies, your tongue, his leather belt and the two insights above with a burning (at times, it will...
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== Results from BDSM test: What kind of sexual deviant are you? ==
100% Dominant
97% Owner
96% Bondage giver
94% Master/Mistress
82% Degradation giver
78% Sadist
76% Brat tamer
71%...