Your post is a little confusing, so this might not be the answer to what you are asking. It sounds as though you have been doing a few scenes, but are now starting to have trouble getting or staying...
Type: Posts; User: Jumphigher
Your post is a little confusing, so this might not be the answer to what you are asking. It sounds as though you have been doing a few scenes, but are now starting to have trouble getting or staying...
"Obedience is important. But that happens only after agency and consent. If obedience is asked for or demanded before agency and consent, run!"
I agree entirely. It also strikes me as the mark of...
I find this discussion really interesting. I have been switchy for the last 20 years, and found it was strongly connected to who my partner was. Some I felt dominant toward, some submissive, and for...