Hey Phenyx. (Good to see you again)
How about this (and I'm just spitballing here..): It's not about "teaching"... it's about having an experience. That is, the sub having an experience and...
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Hey Phenyx. (Good to see you again)
How about this (and I'm just spitballing here..): It's not about "teaching"... it's about having an experience. That is, the sub having an experience and...
I think everyone has a number of innate desires. One of those innate desires is to make a contribution to the world: do something that has value or makes a difference to a person's family, social...
You mean go to a professional domme?
Sure! It's kind of expensive but if you can afford it, what the hell... enjoy!
I'm trying to understand levels of dominance and sadism and the words that get used. Please help
Level 1:
I maintain that I don't want to hurt my wife. But I do want to give her pleasure. ...
Hi just_ine
Seems to me that any therapist SHOULD understand the unbalanced nature of therapy itself. transference (falling in love with the therapist) is a real thing. I don't know but I think...
Let me know what you think of the videos.
Let me know what your friends think!
By the way, just for my own curiosity, were these female friends or male friends?
Yep. (From my very little experience). I'm an once again calling on the expertise of Ian Rath and Aiden Star
There are "warm up" toys and "middle play or end of play toys"
Watch:
Impact Play...
For simplicity:
"she" will be the bottom/sub/slave
"he" will be the top/dom/master
Seems to me (from my own contemplation) that first she has to be able to trust herself. In the cold light of...
To me, everything you've said makes complete sense.
It makes sense that you are questioning in self discovery. But I think in time you will come to terms with things in your past and come to...
I keep revisiting this idea. But now I think I have heard it enough times that it has finally sunk in.
Here is how I see it (others may differ)
BDSM is a partnership between the dom and sub. ...
Can someone explain how dominating or topping appeals to himself or herself? From your own perspective of course.
Me? I'm really not very dominant. I'm really new a this and so far I've been...
My partner and I are really new at BDSM.
We don't play with fear but I still have some. For me the fear is admitting to my partner some of the things that I actually WANT her to know but I'm...