I have a very wonderful boyfriend. We get along really well, and I know I'm in love with him. But the sex is awful, I just can't get into it. I know I'm a submissive and I need to be treated as such to actually get off. I've even brought it up to him before and tried to get him excited by the idea, but he just has no interest in anything regarding BDSM what so ever. he's just one of those people who is so not into it, even just a tiny bit. But I don't want to break up just because of that one thing because other then that everything is great. We've been together for years and we already live together. Has anyone been in a similar relationship / have any advice? Is this something I could just grow out of, or should I risk leaving him and look for someone that shares my interests? I have no idea what to do.