Ok so it must be just me but i wonder constantly about the level of class or rather the lack of it in and around this world

Maybe I'm just a silly romantic but I think a huge black chunky dog collar to symbolize such a deep and enlightened bond is just tacky and if we all want to spout 'shock factor' I believe that's all it is good for, is pissing off the vanilla's or maybe I'm just too vanilla myself

I have a serious aversion to leather clad men who seem to have something to prove to everyone which only shows me insecurity (no offense intended to anyone) - what's wrong with a well manicured, handsome Dominant in a suit, now that is far sexier to me and bodes highly of confident and oozes class all the way

As is a collar crafted from gold that is elegant and graces her neck as opposed to a chunky harsh piece of leather that scrapes and chafes - rashes to me are not sexy nor elegant

The whole seduce her mind with intelligence, quiet confidence and eroticism as opposed to the 'get on your knees bitch' approach if that makes any sense.

I don't understand why, in all my searches around the net and in bookstores, I've yet to see any elegance, class or style that directly reflects something exceedingly special or the enlightenment that seems to be so prevalent amongst us all

I've not written this to piss anyone off and is only my personal thoughts so hold the flaming please - It may very well just be my own tastes but I can hardly think I'm alone in this?