Hello. My name is Maggie, and I think I'm a switch, and I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual, and I really have no idea what I'm doing here; sorry if I ramble incoherently, but I'm really nervous and having to turn off my self-censor just to get this written.

Submission really appeals to me: it turns me on, and there's a psychological appeal to having someone loving you enough to care for you and even discipline you if necessary.

By the same token, I find the thought of dominating someone really hot, esp. the thought of watching someone come completely undone and knowing I did that! I took them there! I also like taking care of people, so the psychological aspect has an appeal also.

However, at this point in my life, I'm still not that good at taking care of myself, much less anyone else, so I don't think I'd want to dominate full-time, although I'd probably enjoy being given control of particular scenes.

The point's rather moot as I'm single, a virgin, and not likely to change either of those facts anytime soon. I'm only 20, and what do I know about sex? I read way too much erotica and informational websites, and it seems like I'm ALWAYS horny; stupid hormones...oh dear. This is terribly embarrassing. I hope I'm not too much of a bore, and hopefully at some point I'll get unflustered enough to make coherent remarks and actually contribute to this community. I am good at listening and logic and the like...also, am v. good at alliteration. (english major)

peace,
Maggie