...but I feel a need to post this, so please bear that in mind. I don't think I'd make a good sub. I'm often sarcastic...sardonic...ironic...whatever (not rude though, I hate rudeness). And yet...when I've been in a deep relationship, I find certain "sub" qualities to be there. Like being with my BF watching TV, and he's on the couch and I'm at his feet, arms resting around his calves. Things like that. It didn't even occur to me what I was doing until I started exploring the internet. And again: one time, in summer, it was very hot so I just had this sundress on and nothing else and...my BF just took me. I started to say something and he just kissed my mouth shut. It was so unexpected, but so total. I've never been "taken" like that, and i guess that's where my interest in this started for me. We had played things before, but he was not a Dom, I know. But after...him asleep and the fan overhead...I wanted so badly to touch myself because a few strokes would have put me THERE but the thing is...i didn't...i couln't. It was torture, but I just laid there and forced myself to be in the moment. And yet that was in itself even more satisfying. So, well, thanks for listening. :=)