We all have enjoyed the great fantasy stories here. We have great geographic reach and people with diverse interests in the life style. So in real life when you see scenes what types of scenes for you are too much?

Ill give and example from my recent past. A group of us headed half way across the state to a munch and a party at a club. The first scene I did was with a BIG boy, 6'4" 300lbs. It was very physical heavy flogging, whipping, cbt, punching and nipple play. We had to have two people stand on the cross just to slow its progress across the room. Two hours later we were 30' from where we started and three tops we dripping in sweat and panting for air and one boy was very happy.

The second was with a young lady and was just the opposite it was quiet, very little percussive play lots of sensation, some shrink wrapping and some rope mixed with a few orgasms. An hour and a half later two doms were enjoying a good glass of wine and a subby girl was a puddle of goo at her Masters feet.

As this crowd doesn't see us play often the comments started to come in hot and heavy. There were a group people who before the first scene was far along were complaining to the DM (thank goodness we know him). For them this was way over the top. There was also some talk in the next few days that the second scene was just too "prissy" and "fluffy" to be BDSM. HMMM... Same tops, same audience.

This reaction is not unique to this night. I hear it allot about play in both private and public settings. So for you in your real life is too much and when does too little cease to be BDSM and become just kinky sex?

DK