So there was an event in my city for experienced doms who find themselves with novice subs on their hands. Since *I* am a novice, I wrote the talker and asked if I could attend anyway, since I'd probably learn something. He wrote back at the last minute, said I would be more than welcome, and asked me if I'd be interested in being the 'model.' I threw caution to the wind and agreed. Long story short, I had a great time; my first full length BDSM 'scene' was in front of a crowd of people taking notes (*blush*), and yes, I did lose count. Twice. Fantastic way to get 'broken in,' as he said!
I just wanted to share that since i don't have anyone around right now who I'd feel comfortable telling...
Anyway, to the question: even though he went comparably easy on me (since he was demonstrating the appropriate way to handle a novice so you get them back ever again), I have plenty of (albeit pretty) broken blood vessels and bruising. This has more to do with me then it does to do with his actions: I'll break the skin if I scratch an itch too hard. I get rashes from brief contact with some detergents. Since i imagine I'll be getting whacked around quite a bit in the future (fingers crossed), and possibly with more ferocity (fingers crossed fingers crossed), I'm going to need some healing strategies! Anything thoughts? Advice? Comments? Suggestions?
Okay. I'm going to go ice my parts and await feedback![]()