I'm new to the site, my boyfriend has explored and enjoys the full range of BDSM, as a Dom or top. I've explored more in my own fantasies; usually as a sub to him, or previously to a nameless person, but sometimes as Dom to either a male or female sub/slave. He describes me as a 'sensualist' because I'm not into pain, but I enjoy the sensual aspects of D/s. I'm here to learn more about myself and explore fantasies and what they mean.