Since this is a safe haven for subs/slaves, i have a silly question for all of you. Do you ever feel that your Master/Dom is not being harsh enough? we all hear of Masters being TOO tough, and even to the point of being cruel. But i haven't read anywhere online where some subs/slaves are needing MORE from their Master?

Does this sound wierd? i just feel sometimes that Master is too kind, too afraid to "accidentally hurt" me, etc. Is this normal? Is it really a good thing and i should just get used to it? (well obviously i don't have a choice now do i?)

I sometimes find myself "picking" at Him to rile him up, and pull out from Him what i know is down deep inside. Perhaps if He were more strict, i wouldn't do this? Am i just bad for even trying to get Him riled up? i know it is a bad thing to admit that i even do such a thing.



Just trying to understand my feelings in a safe environment where i won't get put down for feeling this way... please help if you can. Thank you in advance...