I have no idea about how to voice this without sounding silly, but I have no idea if I'm a domme or a sub. I have no actual experience in either area and, being from a small town, I don't have many options for getting the experience. I enjoy control and giving up control, but I'm undecided.
I guess my question is this: How did you discover whether you are a dom(me), sub(slave) or a switch? Did you just know or did it take experimentation?
Thanks in advance for being patient with me and answering my questions.