Hello everyone! I am fairly new to the BDSM scene, and to be honest, I don't know if I belong here. While I'm very kinky, I am not a sub. I don't want to be owned or told what to do- I can't imagine calling anyone Sir or Master with a straight face. I'm a masochist in search of a trustworthy sadist. I love to be forced. I love to be humiliated, raped, abused, whipped, etc., but I am not ever going to be submissive unless I'm literally being forced to be submissive in the moment. I am a very busy, independent woman in the rest of my life and have no interest in giving that up.

Do I belong here, or is there a better place for me to find what I am looking for?

Your thoughts appreciated!