Hi all. Thought I'd post a question and ask for some advice from everyone here . I was browsing my computer history the other day when I came across some porn history my boyfriend obviously looked up involving rape. I was *shocked* as I never would have pegged him to be interested in this sort thing, let alone rape fantasies. Another thing I came across was live sex cam shows. I guess I'm looking for some advice on these two issue: 1 is how do I come out and tell him I'm 100% okay and want to experiment with him more - including rape fantasies if he's willing to role play a little and 2 how do I explain to him I'm not okay with live cam shows - especially since we haven't had sex in over 2 months. It bothers me he chooses to wake up in the middle of the night and watch live girls and not even try anything with me - in fact turn me down night after night.

I apologize if this is the wrong thread for this!