This isn't really bdsm related, but I guess it could be. Since May of last year, when I was sick for 2 weeks, my sexual appetite has EXTREMELY dropped. I am hardly ever horny anymore, and not as hungry for sex or bdsm as I used to be. Before I got sick, I wanted sex, sexual activities, bdsm several times a day. It's really affecting my fiance and my's life. Sex was a huge part before, and now, I feelt like I'm letting him down. We don't really mess around (mostly cuz I can't get into it), and I know it's frustrating him (me too). Anyone have any ideas or suggestions? I would really appreciate it.