Hello Everyone. I am new to the site/also new to BDSM. I've done my fair share of sexual exploration throughout my late 30's/early 40's (44 here) and I always thought something was wrong with me when I found myself turned on by BDSM instances, like I must be a deviant or something. It's becoming more difficult to suppress these wants and desires as I get older. I'm just looking to dip my toe in the water and see what it's all about and if it's something I can be cool with exploring.