i have been doing some research on corsets and other feminine fashions of that nature. i have yet to find a site that really "explains" the how to's, what to's, etc.

Not entirely sure what i should be asking... since corsets to me have always seemed confining and painful. But, then again, i have never had one on either... i have an aversion to anything tight so have always just "assumed" that corsets fell into that category!

So... anyone with experience care to offer some advice or some links? (pm the links if need be!)

Any help would be appreciated!