Hello everybody. I am a 27 year old married military man. I first became interested in BDSM right around the start of high school but didn't know what it was at the time. Always tended to date the shy good girls back then. Grew up, enlisted, moved out and got married. The rest is history till about a couple monthes ago. We were talking and she confessed to being turned on majorly by BDSM though she didn't know what it was till now. After she described her fantasys to me I informed her of where her interests lie. She wants to be a sub and didn't know it. Wants to have control in public and lose it entirely in the bedroom.

Ahh, here's the rub. I've never topped anyone before. Being my BDSM interests are alot more hardcore than her in my head I know I must start her out at square one. Or BD 101 as I like to call it. I've been kicking around the internet looking for good advice when I stumbled here. There seems to be alot of people here that can offer advice to a first time dom training a first time sub. This is not something I want to mess up. No matter what happens I still have to live with her so the danger factor in up there. So I'm here to learn how to train my sub and learn how to be a good dom. I just don't want to mess this up.