I would like some advice, although I'm not quite sure yet even what the question is - hopefully I'll work that out as I type!

I only found this site today, and my first yesterday. I've only come into joyful realisation and acceptance of myself as a sub very recently (but am not inexperienced in various types of play). My liberation (mental and physical) (although perhaps liberation is not the right word! ) has been with the assistance of a man who I at first thought was just a horny young stud (well, he is). But as our relationship has grown (we've traversed a lot of ground very rapidly), I have come to the conclusion that he is my Master and that he is training me - but I'm not entirely sure he thinks that, or is accepting of that in himself; or whether he is just enjoying playing that role/game at the moment, but doesn't see being a dom as an actual definition of himself. I truly feel the need to be in a deep, loving relationship with a man who is my Master, with that as part of the fundamental definition of our relationship.

We don't at the moment get to see eachother that often, (which has actually been great for cyber play) but at the moment we are in completely different time zones, which is making communication, discovery and sharing more difficult. I wrote him several mails last night that I didn't send him - declaring myself to him, submitting my self to him, and outright asking him if he is a real dom and wants to be my Master or not. He is young (compared with me, certainly) - I think he is also on a voyage of discovery of himself, and I don't want to take him too far too soon, to anywhere he is not willing to go. Generally that sort of concern seems only to be expressed about subs, but I think it is the same for doms. We all have our limits. We all have to discover ourselves, and this is an intense emotional path.

Should I offer myself to him? Should I ask him is he sees himself as a true dom? Should I wait until we see eachother (in a couple of months)? Any advice?

Thanks a lot anyone