Well, dont know where to start.

I'm 20 years old, with a newly discovered dom side and have a girlfriend who wants to be owned for me to get her to completely listening to me. I'm sort of new to the whole BDSM scene but willing to try almost anything. A little about her, same age as me, she's now a sub, she was a dominatrix a few years back, she's stubborn and doesn't take me seriously at times due to me being a little nutty and having a strong affectionate side in day to day life, which she likes. I know she wants me to own her, but i'm not sure how. I know a lot about her past and what she's been through and dont want to be see seen as taking advantage of her because of that. I dont want to end up in fights and such.

Any tips? What can I try? I want her to listen to me so basically i'm saying I want to tame her. I'll do almost anything to tame and 'own' her.

Where do I start? Any help is appreciated.