So it seems around these parts everyone is either in an online relationship, or living with their partner.

Has anyone ever just dated in a D/s relationship??

I have met a very interesting person who currently lives about 500km from me. We have known each other a couple of months and I have made the trip to see him several times.

In two weeks, I will be moving to his city. (I got a transfer with work, and it just all worked out). I have bought my first house (yay!) so it won't be like we are living together, but at least we will able to spend much more time together.

I am somewhat nervous about the whole thing. Our relationship has been somewhat vanilla to date due to the distance, our desire to take things slow and do them right, and both of us being sick. However, he has always made it clear who is in charge.

I almost feel like I am about to get my first boyfriend... it is that new and exciting. But I am curious about how everything will play out. How will our relationship progress compared to a vanilla relationship? And what will I say the first time a co-worker overhears me calling and asking for permission to go for drinks after work?

I know most of this will just play itself out. I am just curious about everyone else's experiences.

-lily