"Normal" human intercourse (as I have stated somewhere else in this forum) requires the woman to assume a submissive position and the act itself has a semblance of violence. For the male to achieve orgasm he must thrust hard and fast into the female. For me it is very hard to feel dominant when I am on the receiving end of this thrusting. How do you deal with intercourse with your sub? How do you maintain the dominance during this submissive act other than being on top (it balances it out some for the female to be on top but you are still being penetrated)?

I am a sub and have thought about switching. Woodsman has never let me try for longer than a few minutes (5 at the most), so I don't have any real experience. I am interested, however, and may write a story in this vein in the future. It will have to be strictly fantasy though.

PS. I meant to post this in the forum "My BDSM life." This is my first new thread, and I didn't do it correctly obviously. Help, please, moderators.