I've read repeatedly in places that without proper training, it's dangerous when marks are left. I've read all manner of marks are dangerous; welts, bruising, bites, burns, etc. My interest is in welts via spanking and bruising via pinching. What exactly does He (my husband) need to know before he can do these things to me without the high risk of permanent damage? Are there resources you can think of? Advice? Is it really that dangerous? Please weigh in on the subject, if you would be so kind. Thank you so much in advance for any thoughts on the matter. I'm interested in personal views and experiences in getting to that point (whichever it may be).
My tone is intended to be respectful, so if I've somehow been offensive (or put this in the wrong place, or overlooked a resource that is quite obvious to everyone but me), please let me know right away so we can clear it up. I feel sort of like I'm sneaking into forbidden territory or something!