At the risk of becoming cliché and asking advice from people i don't know, i have a bit of a dilemma.

i've been with my Dom for just under a year now. Now before i go on, let me give the following information: both of us are married to other people, happily so. My husband knows and i don't think she does. He works around Europe a fair bit, so seeing me under the guise of "work" is believable. While we may not get to see each other as often as we'd like, it's still better than nothing at all. The last time i saw him was in May - a brilliant birthday trip to Amsterdam turned into a horrible weekend when i brought my daughter's flu with me - it was going out from every direction. Of course i was disappointed in the outcome, who wouldn't be? i wanted the perfect weekend away, and i went and got just sick in ways that nobody should. After that point, both of our time just got crazy - summer things, i moved, holidays, etc.

About three weeks ago or so, we arranged to get together from the 29-31st of August. The week prior he would be with his wife for an anniversary trip, so that was a good time to go. i haven't heard from him for about three weeks now.

Am i right in feeling just a tad hurt, upset, and angry? i'm not easily pushed to the point where i want to give up (indeed, some people may say i'm giving up too soon) - but this has me frustrated and then some.

So i suppose what i'd like is any input - good, bad, or otherwise.

Thanks in advance.