When is the pain alone…….enough?



Sometimes questions are put to me that need more then the standard “Dear Thrall” answer. I think that this is one of those questions, that a verity of answers, form different perspective and points of view, would be helpful.

I think the answer can be given form both the Dom/Domme and submissive points of view.

The question asked of me was where in the process can you cum form the pain alone? Is this possible and how do you get there???


OK……my answer now…………..

The pain ladder is different for everyone……how we feel good pain and…..bad pain….is all part of the process. Everyone is different and has higher or lower tolerances of pain…….where the personal edge is.

Can you cum form the pain alone without anything else?…….Yes. Can you be spanked, cropped or flogged…or for that matter anything else… to the point where…...the pain becomes pleasure?……..Yes. A good deal depends on how masochistic you are.

This is not something that just happens overnight. Your body and mind adjust……and transmutes what is being fired in the brain; the lines blur……pain/pleasure. You must learn your body, where your edges are…….where the mind shifts to feel the endorphins being pumped into your body to deal with the pain.

Communication with the Dominant is very important….Ask…..Ask…Ask. All questions are valid. Tell them that is where you want to be taken…….that is what you want and need……



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