Ok, as you all mainly know (at least if you read profiles or pay attention to things I have written which I suppose I shouldn't assume you have done ) I am mainly a sub. I *used* to consider myself a switch but found myself more and more heading towards subbing than domming.

However, I have a vanilla relationship and this woman is about as sub as I am, though she is not involved in the scene at all. We've done a bit of bondage occasionally, taking it in turns, but not done too much.

So, I was wondering if anyone out there in libraryland has any suggestions for things to do to a tied up vanilla girl that are edging towards BDSM play but which may not scare her off too much.

Any suggestions greatly received...