I've got a problem getting over things that are supposed to be resolved. For example, if i as a sub disappoint my Master and am punished and learned my lesson i'm supposed to go ahead and do better in the future. The case is supposed to be closed, and as far as my Master is concerned, it is. And i'm grateful for that.

From what i understand, that's the way it works in many D/s relationships and yes, it should work like that.

But it's not that easy, at least not for me. I find myself looking back (which in itself isn't a bad thing to do) and still feel remorse/regret/shame (which doesn't really help and shouldn't be necessary, because i already paid the price with the punishment)

Are there any other subs (or even Dominants) with the same problem, and if yes, how do you deal with it?