I need some advice. I have been in my current relationship for a little over a year now, however, we have only been in a D/s relationship for a few months. Before this I was in a D/s relationship for almost 4 years and now that I am getting back into the scene I have found out I am having a hard time letting go. I feel guilty for still missing him. I find myself lost and confused about if this is something that I want, but yet it is who I am. I have no idea where to go from here.

It feels wrong to be obeying someone else even though I am no longer with my old Master. Is this normal? Is there something wrong with me? Where do I go from here? Do you ever truly get over and move on from the first you truly opened up to and held nothing back?