Hello and thank you for letting me join.

I am an aspiring Dominant. While watching the film "Secretary" I had a realisation about my own sexuality. Having only had one partner who I have got to experiment with BDSM I am new and still virginal in that sense.

Hoping to meet others who don't see BDSM as something odd. (friends I have talked to seem shocked and respond "but your a nice person why would you want to tie up and spank a woman???")

Still in the process of finding out what I like and dislike but would place myself at the lighter end sadism. more into roleplay and D/s

Also I can be eccentric so would prefer a silly giggling sub to a hardcore pain slut. Since I am would tickle more than I would whip.

Oh and I am 36 year old male, single 5'5" 145lb.