Being a Dom is so much a part of who I am that it feels like there is nothing else. There is an emptiness I feel when I am without a submissive, without someone to command, without someone to call my own little one. I am willing to match the level of commitment shown to me, and also be conscious of what discrete measures are requested. I am not seeking to find someone who believes she knows all there is to know about being a sub, experience is good, but not when you let it dictate how you submit after you have given over control to your Dom. I believe that a good Dom should have the patience and understanding to teach and guide a submisive and also the imagination and sense of self enough to grasp the attention of an experienced one as well.

For now I will say just a little about myself, for starters I have experience in both online and real life. I am a patient teacher though I do have structures and rules that I want my sub to follow. I will listen but I will not be told what to do, I make decisions according to what best suites both of us as long as it does not infringe on our outside life, discretion is always key. I would describe myself as caring, though I do not let that aspect get the best of me - meaning I will not let my sub get away with things just because.

There may be many other things I could say about myself but I leave that up to anyone that proffers an interest in my post, you may ask what you will.