I see it like this, I have one "vanilla" personality and one part of me that is dominant and which I call Mylady (only slighty schizofrenic ) but now when sort of rediscovering my intrest in BDSM (or in other words taking it more seriously because I have realized that this is pretty darn fun) I have comed to notice that "Mylady" takes more and more place in me, I want to be Mylady all the time..
On the other hand I do also realize that its not appropriate to bring out you dominant side every where in society..allthough sometimes you do meet people that would need a good whipping :P
So now my question is, how much of your dominant/submissive personalty do you "bring out in public", it would be intresting to see if somebody is "totally out" so to speak

Love
Mylady

P.s I bought myself and new flogger today, a really nice one in black leather, my second to so far unfortunetly I have no-one to use it on