So, for anyone who read my other post "New sub to the lifestyle", you already know that my princess was a little aprehensive about gags. I questioned her about it and it was jsut that the ring gag I was using was hurting her tongue. >shrug< C'est la vie.
And now the update to that post:
"She loved the paddle and I made her wear a gag most of the time... though, I did leave her alone for a couple minutes all tied up and she managed to take the gag out (I haven't purchased a buckling gag yet). Anyways, the gag thing wasn't so hard set.
I guess the best part is that I made her strip and prepare the bedroom. It was a kinda spur of the moment and not something I had thought out, but giving her 3 minutes to fold all her clothes, the blankets and pull the bed to the center of the room got her all sorts of excited... this is, of course, after I had her pull her punishment card (I've made a set of 10 punishments and placed them in envelopes for her to select when it's time cash in on her infractions).
So, I tied her up and left the room for a few minutes to go prepare the ginger root... at this point you might be a little confused as to what that's for. If you know what figging is, you know where it's going (if not, here www.figging.com ). After a couple minutes of being gone, which she thought was like 10 minutes >chuckle< I came back and warmed her ass up a bit with my incense paddle and a piece of leather I had laying around. THEN I placed the root in her ass. She said it took a couple minutes, but... yeah, it was nice to hear her little whimpers when I touched it. I'm impressed though that she didn't ask me to remove it. WOW, it made her wet, though.
It took roughly an 40 minutes or so to get the paddling done. No I didn't paddle her that long, I took breaks cause I was "tired" and to help her forget what number we were on."
Anyways, she learned her lesson and I've decided to produce more rules for her to follow. Can anyone help? These are what I have so far:


1) You are not to use the words "at all" ever (she liked to use it alot, but I fixed that)
2) You are to be on time to everything (she's bound to be late for something... it impossible to be perfect)
3) Orgasm restrictions. You have to ask to cum.
4) You are to speak French for the first 20 mintues of arriving. (we both speak french... since we met in our 2nd year french class earlier this year)

So, when thinking about these rules for her, realize she's not a lifestyle sub, but I like to include the rules in r/l for two reasons: 1) it makes her think about me 2) when I mention that she broke a rule and there's someone around, the look at us funny.
I appreciate any new input on this.