So I'm still trying to get my head together regarding who and what I am (hence the title.)

I am all of the following things:
  • A christian (A Methodist who is every bit as anti calvinism as wesely was)
  • A Switch
  • A Conservative Democrat
  • A feminist (of the old line, that is I think women should be considered equal to men)
  • A holder of the Safe, Sane, Consentual philosophy
  • In a committed relationship
  • In college


There's more than that to me, of course, these are a few labels and I tend to defy the traditional definitions in some of them. For example, I'm protestant, but not Calvinist (I can say more about this elsewhere if anyone is interested.) I call myself a switch because I'm usually submissive, but enjoy dominating from time to time. I'm committed to one person at the moment, and I don't like the fawning attitude that some submissives take towards all Dommes. I don't give that to just anyone. She has to earn it (I can talk about that later, too.)

I've got a lot of questions about my sexuality, because I don't have this figured out yet, not in the least. I'm hoping there are a few christians out there as well, because I'm worried about the implications of this on my life in the church.

Anyway, that's me in a nutshell.