Hi Everyone I'm new to this site and hopeing to be placing this in the right forum.

I just have a question or situtation that I would like some input on.

I've never been in a D/S relationship before, but my boyfriend has. He says that he is extremely happy with our sex life as it is. But he has joked about it a few times maybe playing a few scenes. I would be interested in a little light D/S play, but I'm not sure how to go about this. I am very happy with our sex life, but wouldn't mind trying something new.

He also says that he feels very sorry for what he used to do. He was almost in tears when he thought about past experiences he has had. I don't know the details but he was very much into it for a while. I'm not sure what to make of all of this. And I don't want to do anything that could bring up bad memories for him. Just looking for any advice, thanks in advance.

Although he loved it when I put a collar on him, although that only happened once.

Yep, I'm Confused!!! :help: