Hi from Charlie Brown: I am new to the site and am trying to learn my way around. My girl friend joined and I sort of followed her. She is a sub and Dom for me, but I'm not sure how to be a dom. Not sure where to begin. When talking to a sub is there some edquette to follow, specific questions to ask. I am just trying to be myself without embarrassing myself. I think respect for the other person is important and to not be judgemental. I am 43, very active sport wise and full of energy. Some say my tongue should be in the Smithsonian.....