I had been on here a while back, ages ago before the forums got switched around with the whole under 18 thing(and I'm far over 18, that's not why I haven't been around ).

Anyway, I'm back. Married switch with definite domme tendencies. I have a slave that is very dominant in real life and has a lot of shame issues about being/wanting/needing to be dominated. He introduced me to BDSM and he's known this about himself for since puberty, but still, he has trouble going under, doubts that I really mean it and otherwise can be hardheaded and troublesome.

And I'll be honest, I get torn between forcing the issue and giving up on it, not wanting to reward him for being difficult. Then sometimes we fight over whether I really meant it or not or if I'm just a big tease.

I AM a big tease.

There's very little we haven't at least tried and we have a ridiculously large toy collection.

Mostly I'm hear to learn a little, get some fresh ideas. I'd love to talk to another sub or domme in the life, not so much to play(though a little play never hurts) but as to discuss the ups and downs the lifestyle and compare notes.

happy halloween, ya'll.

E