I am interested in finding out from other Doms, subs and switches what started you out in this life style did you always know deep down inside the vanilla life was not for you or did a friend or partner introduce you to this lifestyle, maybe a book or a film got your attention.

To start the ball rolling I always knew I wanted something different from a teenager but did not know what. This was before the age of the inter-web/net so I was not able to find any information or talk to anyone I did not want to talk to girlfriends and friends about this afraid they would run screaming away calling me a freak.

I carried on with my life dating vanillas when surprise surprise totally by accident I started to date a sub woman, when she got comfortable in are relationship she sat down and talked to me about being a sub what she liked to do, well what she liked to be done to her and the two of us ran off to the bedroom, and I have not looked back since although we are not together anymore I have very found memories of my first sub, and I don’t care if people run away form me calling me a freak now