Hi everyone,

I have been hanging around for a couple of days and finally got my nerve up to introduce myself. It's the typical story that I'm sure you've heard before...My husband and I have been married almost 20 years and I recently acknowledged and began to take ownership of my own submissive nature. I've begun to communicate this to my beloved with mixed results.

So, you ask, what does she want here? I want friends that I can talk about this lifestyle with - it's not something you bring up with your girlfriends over coffee, is it? Both subs and doms - I value and want to learn from both sides of the coin. It seems as if being a good sub involves great understanding of and empathy for our doms...and I so much want my husband to be happy and pleased with me.

Much gratitude to tessa and MasterStone who have both been so welcoming to me as I stumble about...