On The Realities of 24/7

[denuseri]

Nothing at all in the manual says that a 24/7 TPE relationship has to be full of hourly spankings and or various assorted other kinky adventures in wonderland.

[Jennifer Williams]

assorted other kinky adventures in wonderland.

LMAO, that is beautiful.

I always just thought a 24/7 TPE relationship meant the dom exerts some forms of control over the sub's life; how much or how little that is depends/changes on the relationship, and doesn't necessarily have to include sex (though that is quite frequently thrown in there because it is the most fun part).

I think for some people it means you have to live together, though we don't, but there is still 24/7 control going on for us.

Even having sex (or doing something with sex play) once a day can wear you out...

If I'm tired, he gets nothing. I'll be watching my favorite TV shows all night, thank you very much. And then he'll go and rub my feet *sighs with sweetness*. And I do not feel it necessary to explain to him why I'm not in the mood; though I'll make it clear that it isn't because of something he did wrong.

But I have trained him to know better than to argue with me.