For those who are "in negotiation" it is perhaps useful to have your own copy, which I am happy to provide from our website.

The following link, for a checklist http://www.seekers.org.uk/checklist1.htm gives a choice of either a downloadable word document or a pdf file (select the appropriate link) which can be filled in, mailed etc. Checklists, as has been said are great for testing compatibility, as well as creating talking points between partners. There will likely be stuff on the list you dont understand or have never heard of: that way you can extend your knowledge and go and google it or find out what the activity entails. Our site has a dictionary too, but there are many other resources as well.

MG