To expand and clarify on the above. Again, I see no reason that a real poly relationship can't work, though I see it as a more complicated version of the "regular" relationship. But if the three (or for that matter, more) peopel involved in it all mesh well, then it can work absolutely. "Real" poly relationship meaning a legit D/s bond buiult on trust, respect etc. and not a Dom simply using his place to get ahold of as many girls as he can. And in no way am I accusing anyone in this thread of being that kind of man. Absolutely not.
But I do feel there have been a couple of answers from the Doms that almost come off with the vibe of "I'm a Dom so either (a) I'm entitled to more than one woman, or (b) I don't need to justify anything I do". I think both are weak answers. If I'm miss-reading that vibe, then I apologize. But so far the subs have been, by far, the more insightful half of this discussion.
I will say I can understand how to a point one could take offense to having their style of relationship questioned, as almost all lifestylers must face that in one degree or another at some point.
I honsetly don't mean to stir anything with any of that, just stating what I see at this time as the facts to this point. Nothing more meant than that.