The world is based on a matter of opinion.... that has a been a personal saying of mine for a long time and it is all to true.

Frankly I find it rather condesending that some people cannot accept/understand that others may think of life differently. If someone decideds to have multiple subs then so be it, let that be there life and let them deal with the outcome... what place is it of ours to question/demeen such a desicion?

Really this topic never died... sorry to say it only went to the dogs. For such open minded people you sure discuse opinion alot. I realize alot of this is experssing those opinions but I also see the subtle, hidden (and not so hidden) remarks that (intentional or not) harm and undermine others. This I take exception too. One should always choose there words carefully and/or make clear that they mean no judgment/harm/insult... everything else is free game huh...

In my opinion multiple sub relationships can work perfectly... it just requires willingness, openness, good judgement, patience, love, and consistancy. Really... when you look at it... its like any other relation we as humans ever make... weither its that guy talking on his cell phone while driving, the lady at the cashier counting pennies, or the third sub to your 'collection' (to use the word lightly)

....And we wonder why the world is falling to pieces....