As Jade's new sub, one of two, I personally don't have an issue with being one of two. I've met the other and we seem to have gotten along well, for the short time over dinner. Mistress Jade takes care in making me feel very special and I'm sure she treats the other the same. I entered this relationship knowing, I would be part of a poly family. Now, there might be those who don't want or can't handle this type of relationship. So don't go there. For those of us you can and enjoy, it can be very rewarding. It is a personal decision to made by each of us. As in all relationships, honest communication is vital. take care to all