his_j take the questionaire and print out the other one for him to take. Leave them where he will find them with some instructions.
Have you talked about this at all with him. I see your shy do you have a set of handcuffs is not buy a set, even the kids type with the lever to release you, then put on his favorite sexy wear or nude if he prefers. Then put on the cuffs behind your back and go kneel in front of him with mouth open or even better use your mouth to open his pants. Tell him to control how you suck by grabbing your head or hair.
If that doesn't work at least he knows a little of what you want.
Russell