I too have a personal problem with the look of a shaved puss, though I love the feel of it. For me, it seemed that I was imitating myself as a MUCH younger girl and I had a moral issue with my current wanting me to look that young? I have no idea if that was what he in fact DID want but I worried that it was a question I didn't have the strength to ask (or hear the answer)
Anyway, despite moral questions, especially since I am single and not likely to run into anything for a LONG time, I am happily smoooooootttthhhhhh. I get waxed (completely!) and since I am only starting in this scene, it is the one thing I do to get the fantasies real. I love it - and it hurts less each time (*smiles*)